Overlooking Yourself......

    People are quick to call a person out for anything and everything,   I call this ignoring the fact you have issues to handle and have to put your attention anywhere but on yourself.  I do wonder sometimes why people do this? And why do some people look at some and sneer and talk bad about them! I know because they think low of themselves and wish the other person to look just like them or lower insisting to your partner or friends or whomever will listen to you that this person you target is so much worse than you in everyway comparing yourself to have people agree in a sense makes you feel superior and above the target it gives them delusional power that only they can see. I think I have sat and listened to enough and watched people enough to know this is how some people's minds work although I do not want to be a hypocrite so I do admit I have pulled this but it only made me feel like I had to compare myself and almost sell my facts why I am better than this person. I learned to not do this because I am not perfect and neither is anyone else and who cares really?  I just try to be the best me I can be everyday and I just don't let criticism get me down,  I am not the kind girl you can say "ewww" your scar is ugly than go run to the mirror and dream about plastic surgery and then obsess over it forever...... Just take the insult with grace and keep moving forward. These people who may do this to you need an reaction so you can further be taken down into their narcissistic quicksand....Ego swap.... Whatever you want to call it:) .  The right to speak for some is a dangerous.... destruction causing...disaster sometimes!  Learn to think before you speak and type things that could be harmful to someone it could only hurt you not them you know what I mean?  I have had my name dragged through the mud before and what I did was ignore it! Walk away and keep in mind that I am too awesome to even give a rats tooshie! I just pray they don't overlook themselves anymore it is very annoying to watch someone trample all over others and name call and mess up that person character so they think then walk away brushing their hands together and smiling and feeling good now that they have only convinced themselves of this persons inspired imperfections made by only you! You see... it means they look at themselves in a better light if they think they blew out yours! This would be equal too being evil in a sense! Take one day to list you flaws or dislikes one sheet of paper and then go ahead and list the flaws of someone you target and see what you come up with.  This is a test and a hard one at that but I suggest you try it and see what happens.  If your side has very little and their side has pages their is a problem right there. You can learn to accept that your to harsh on them this is a bit to much bullying.  Learn to love, respect, forgive, and don't overlook and push off your name calling and lies and if you don't know the person especially don't listen to just one side of the story their are other sides also that are more true and good about people the things people don't want to know about someone they hated because of word of mouth. It is hard to actually change how you think about someone once someone has brainwashed you into thinking this person is a monster! Get the fact straight first and if you still think the same thing then keep it in your think bubble and save the energy for something else!  Have a nice day.. Love and peace always,  Ray Ray

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Cucumbers..

Still letting her grow...

My strawberries should be red soon and sweet... this is the second batch.

This melon is almost done.. These take forever to grow.

There are eight melons so far..... They are almost ready to eat yum all organic!

The tomatoes I planted are all ripening! There are at least 100 or more right now.... I have been eating bacon lettuce tomato sandwiches for a week.